When a loved one is sick or approaching the end of life, Catholic prayers offer a deep well of spiritual strength. They provide comfort, hope, and a path to peace for both the person who is ill and their family.
These sacred words and traditions give us a way to express our love and find solace when life's journey becomes most difficult. Prayer offers a powerful spiritual anchor, providing hope and peace for the sick person and their family.
How to Pray with Someone Who Is Sick or Dying
Feel free to choose from the many different prayers, litanies, and scriptures, depending on the circumstances and condition of the person. Also, the length of the prayers may be shortened or extended.
Most importantly, listen to how God may be speaking to you. As you begin praying, it is helpful to ask for a moment of silence among those gathered and invite all present to call to mind the presence of God.
The prayers are best said in a slow, quiet voice, alternating with periods of silence. A pause or a period of silence between each section is also helpful.
Do not hesitate to say these prayers even if the person appears to be unconscious. A person who appears unconscious may still be aware of their surroundings and be able to hear and may know that others who care and love them are near and are there to help them on their journey to meet Our Lord.
When a loved one is dying we tend to feel helpless and unsure. Nevertheless it is still possible to pray for them.
Our prayers at the bedside of our Christian brothers and sisters will let them know that they are not alone. We are walking with them as far as we can on this final journey to their new home.
We cannot cross over into their new home, but we can go as far as the door with them. It is hoped that as death draws near, these prayers will give the person confidence in God’s mercy so they can overcome their fears and look forward to a heavenly life and resurrection through the power of Christ, who destroyed the power of death by his own dying.
Opening Prayer for the Sick
Opening Prayer
God of all goodness,
Look with mercy on all who suffer any kind of infirmity, sickness or injury, that they may be comforted. Let your hand of healing and protection be upon them.
When they are fearful, ease their fear and anxieties. When they are afraid, give them strength and courage. When they feel alone, send them someone to listen and to care.
When they are confused, provide reassurance and direction. When they are in pain, ease their suffering. When they despair, give them hope.
May they experience your healing presence in the comfort of a caregiver’s calm gaze and tender touch. We ask this in your holy name. Amen.
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 103
Psalm 103:1bc-2, 3-4, 8-9, 13-14, 17-18a
R. O bless the Lord, my soul!
Bless the Lord, O my soul; and all my being, bless his holy name. Bless the Lord, O my soul, And forget not all his benefits.
R.
He pardons all your iniquities, He heals all your ills, He redeems your life from destruction, he crowns you with kindness and compassion.
R.
Merciful and gracious is the Lord, Slow to anger and abounding in kindness. He will not always chide, Nor does he keep his wrath forever.
R.
As a father has compassion on his children, So the Lord has compassion on those who fear him, For he knows how we are formed; He remembers that we are dust.
R.
But the kindness of the Lord is from all eternity To eternity toward those who fear him, And his justice toward his children’s children Among those who keep his covenant.
R.
Scripture Reading for Healing and Hope
Luke 13:10-17
(Jesus) was teaching in a synagogue on the sabbath. And a woman was there who for eighteen years had been crippled by a spirit; she was bent over, completely incapable of standing erect.
When Jesus saw her, he called to her and said, “Woman, you are set free of your infirmity.” He laid his hands on her, and she at once stood up straight and glorified God.
But the leader of the synagogue, indignant that Jesus had cured on the sabbath, said to the crowd in reply, “There are six days when work should be done. Come on those days to be cured, not on the sabbath day.”
The Lord said to him in reply, “Hypocrites! Does not each one of you on the sabbath untie his ox or his ass from the manger and lead it out for watering This daughter of Abraham, whom Satan has bound for eighteen years now, ought she not to have been set free on the sabbath day from this bondage?”
When he said this, all his adversaries were humiliated; and the whole crowd rejoiced at all the splendid deeds done by him.
Reflection on Health, Healing, and Hope
A reflection on the scripture readings or the themes of health, healing, and hope may be offered here.
In the Catholic faith, prayer isn't just about reciting words; it's a living, breathing connection with God that offers incredible strength when you need it most. It becomes a spiritual anchor for both the sick person and their family, a quiet source of hope in a challenging time.
One of the most beautiful traditions is intercessory prayer, which is simply a community coming together to pray on behalf of someone else. It creates a powerful spiritual safety net.
Think of prayer as a direct line to God's comfort. It's a way to hand over your fears, express your love, and find a measure of peace.
Watching a loved one suffer can make you feel completely helpless. Prayer offers a tangible way to act, a way to channel your love and concern into a genuine act of spiritual support.
It’s not about demanding a miracle, but about placing your loved one into God’s loving hands and finding the strength to accept His will.
Petitions for the Sick and Those Who Care for Them
God is the source of all healing and hope, to whom we now lift up in prayer the needs of the sick and those who care for them.
The response to each petition is: R. God of healing and hope, hear our prayer.
- That all who suffer any form of illness or infirmity may find relief from their pain, meaning in their struggles, and healing in body, mind and spirit, we pray to the Lord: R. God of healing and hope, hear our prayer.
- That the human dignity of those with chronic illnesses may always be upheld and affirmed, we pray to the Lord: R. God of healing and hope, hear our prayer.
- That those who struggle with mental illness and addictions may find understanding and acceptance, we pray to the Lord: R. God of healing and hope, hear our prayer.
- That sick infants and children may be blessed with healing and joy, we pray to the Lord: R. God of healing and hope, hear our prayer.
- That those who suffer alone may find consolation through the gentle presence of others, we pray to the Lord: R. God of healing and hope, hear our prayer.
- That those who are dying may be filled with serenity and peace, we pray to the Lord: R. God of healing and hope, hear our prayer.
- That family and friends who care for sick loved ones may be strengthened and supported in their service, we pray to the Lord: R. God of healing and hope, hear our prayer.
- That doctors, nurses, and other professional caregivers may be guided by wisdom, strength, skill, and generosity, we pray to the Lord: R. God of healing and hope, hear our prayer.
- That accessible and affordable health care may be available to all who seek it, we pray to the Lord: R. God of healing and hope, hear our prayer.
- That national leaders may be guided by the principles of justice and compassion as they work for healthcare reform, we pray to the Lord: R. God of healing and hope, hear our prayer.
An opportunity for additional petitions may be offered here.
Prayer for Healing and Strength
Prayer to Our Lady of Lourdes
“O ever-Immaculate Virgin, Mother of Mercy, Health of the Sick, Refuge of Sinners, Comforter of the Afflicted, you know my wants, my troubles, my sufferings.
Look with mercy on me. By appearing in the Grotto of Lourdes, you were pleased to make it a privileged sanctuary, whence you dispense your favors, and already many sufferers have obtained the cure of their infirmities, both spiritual and corporal.
I come, therefore, with fullest confidence, to implore your maternal intercession. Obtain, O loving Mother, the grant of my requests.
Through gratitude for your favors, I will endeavor to imitate your virtues, that I may one day share your glory. Amen.”
Essential Catholic Prayers for Any Moment
These are the cornerstones of Catholic prayer. Many of us know them by heart, and their power lies in their simplicity. You can say them anytime, anywhere, to bring a sense of comfort and focus.
The Sign of the Cross
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
The Our Father
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.
The Hail Mary
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee: blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
The Glory Be
Glory be to the Father, and to the Son and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.
The Apostle’s Creed
I believe in God, the Father Almighty, Creator of Heaven and earth; and in Jesus Christ, His only Son, Our Lord, Who was conceived by the Holy Spirit, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried.
He descended into Hell. The third day He arose again from the dead; He ascended into Heaven, sits at the right hand of God, the Father Almighty; from thence He shall come to judge the living and the dead.
I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy Catholic Church, the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and the life everlasting. Amen.
Act of Contrition
“O my God, I am sorry and beg pardon for all my sins, and detest them above all things, because they have crucified my loving Savior Jesus Christ, and, most of all, because they offend your infinite goodness; and I firmly resolve, by the help of your grace, never to offend you again, and carefully to avoid the occasions of sin. Amen.”
Hail Holy Queen
Hail, Holy Queen, Mother of mercy, our life, our sweetness and our hope.
To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve: to thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley of tears.
Turn then, most gracious Advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us, and after this our exile, show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary! Amen.
Anima Christi
Soul of Christ, make me holy Body of Christ, be my salvation Blood of Christ, let me drink your wine Water flowing from the side of Christ, wash me clean Passion of Christ, strengthen me Kind Jesus, hear my prayer Hide me within your wounds And keep me close to you Defend me from the evil enemy And call me at the hour of my death To the fellowship of your saints That I might sing your praise with them for all eternity. Amen.
Prayers for a Dying Loved One
When the moment of death seems near, the following prayer may be said:
Prayer of Commendation Before Death
I commend you, my dear brother/sister, to almighty God, and entrust you to your Creator. May you return to Him who formed you from the dust of the earth.
May holy Mary, the angels, and all the saints come to meet you as you go forth from this life. May Christ who was crucified for you bring you freedom and peace.
May Christ who died for you admit you into his garden of paradise. May Christ, the true Shepherd, Acknowledge you as one of his flock.
May He forgive all your sins, And set you among those He has chosen. May you see your Redeemer face to face, And enjoy the vision of God for ever. Amen.
Prayer at the Time of Death
Go forth, Christian soul, from this world in the name of God the almighty Father, who created you, in the name of Jesus Christ, Son of the living God, who suffered for you, in the name of the Holy Spirit, who was poured out upon you, go forth, faithful Christian,
May you live in peace this day, may your home be with God in Zion, with Mary, the virgin Mother of God, with Joseph, and all the angels and saints.
Prayer of Commendation
Name, child of God, our companion in faith and sister/brother in Christ, Go forth, Christian soul, from this world in the love of God the almighty Father, who created you, in the mercy of Jesus Christ, Son of the living God, who suffered and died for you, in the power of the Holy Spirit, who was poured out upon you, and strengthens you, at one with all the faithful, living and departed.
go forth, faithful Christian. May you rest in peace and rise in the glory of your eternal home, forever in the paradise of God. where grief and misery are banished, and light and joy abide. Amen.
Invocation of Our Lady
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession was left unaided.
Inspired with this confidence, I fly to you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful.
O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me.
Our Lady of Lourdes. Pray for us.
Scriptural Prayers for the Dying
Psalm 23
The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I lack. In green pastures he makes me lie down; to still waters he leads me; he restores my soul.
He guides me along right paths for the sake of his name. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff comfort me….
You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Indeed, goodness and mercy will pursue me all the days of my life; I will dwell in the house of the Lord.
Short Scriptural Texts
- What will separate us from the love of Christ? Romans 8:35
- We shall always be with the Lord. 1 Thessalonians 4:17
- The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom should I fear? Psalm 27:1
- Jesus said, “Come, you who are blessed by my Father. Inherit the kingdom prepared for you.” Matthew 25:34
- God said, “I will never forsake you or abandon you.” Hebrews 13:5
- They that hope in the Lord will renew their strength, they will soar on eagles’ wings. Isaiah 40:31
Other Scriptural Readings
Jesus said, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You have faith in God; have faith also in me. In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places. If there were not, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back again and take you to myself, so that where I am you also may be.” John 14:1-3
Jesus said, “Whoever loves me will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our dwelling with him. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. Not as the world gives do I give it to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled or afraid.” John 14:23, 27
“Do not fear: I am with you; do not be anxious: I am your God. I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my victorious right hand.” Isaiah 41:10
Be strong and steadfast! Do not fear nor be dismayed, for the Lord, your God, is with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9
Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for yourselves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.” Matthew 11:28-30
Jesus said, “My sheep hear my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish. No one can take them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all, and no one can take them out of the Father’s hand. The Father and I are one.” John 10:27-30
So whoever is in Christ is a new creation: the old things have passed away; behold, new things have come. 2 Corinthians 5:17
Jesus said, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. Not as the world gives, do I give it to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled or afraid.” John 14.27
Blessed are those who trust in the Lord;… They are like a tree planted beside the waters that stretches out its roots to the stream: It does not fear heat when it comes, its leaves stay green; In the year of drought it shows no distress, but still produces fruit. Jeremiah 17; 7-8
For I know well the plans I have in mind for you… plans for your welfare, and not for woe, so as to give you a future of hope. Jeremiah 29:11
God is our refuge and our strength, an ever-present help in distress. Thus we do not fear, though earth be shaken and mountains quake to the depths of the sea…. “Be still and know that I am God! Psalm 46: 1-3, 11
Litany of the Saints for the Dying
Lord have mercy
Lord, have mercy
Christ, have mercy
Christ, have mercy
Lord, have mercy
Lord, have mercy
- Holy Mary, Mother of God - Pray for him/her
- Holy angels of God - Pray for him/her
- Abraham, our father in faith - Pray for him/her
- David, leader of God’s people - Pray for him/her
- All holy patriarchs and prophets - Pray for him/her
- Saint John the Baptist - Pray for him/her
- Saint Joseph - Pray for him/her
- Saint Peter and Saint Paul - Pray for him/her
- From all evil - Lord, save your people
- From every sin - Lord, save your people
- From Satan’s power - Lord, save your people
- At the moment of death - Lord, save your people
- From everlasting death - Lord, save your people
- On the day of judgment - Lord, save your people
- By your coming as man - Lord, save your people
- By your suffering and cross - Lord, save your people
- By your death and rising to new life - Lord, save your people
- By your return in glory to the Father - Lord, save your people
- By your gift of the Holy Spirit - Lord, save your people
- By your coming again in glory - Lord, save your people
- Be merciful to us sinners - Lord, hear our prayer
- Bring N. to eternal life, first promised to him (her) in Baptism - Lord, hear our prayer
- Raise N. on the last day, for he (she) has eaten the Bread of life - Lord, hear our prayer
- Let N. share in your glory, for he (she) has shared in your suffering and death - Lord, hear our prayer
- Jesus, Son of the living God - Lord, hear our prayer
- Christ, hear us - Christ hear us
- Lord Jesus, hear our prayer - Lord Jesus, hear our prayer
The Divine Mercy Prayer
Jesus revealed to St. Faustina Kowaska, “At the hour of their death, I defend as My own glory every soul that will say this chaplet; or when others say it for a dying person, the indulgence is the same.
When this chaplet is said by the bedside of a dying person,… unfathomable mercy envelops the soul, and the very depths of My tender mercy are moved (Diary, 811).
Now let us pray the Divine Mercy Prayer as Jesus taught St. Faustina:
Eternal Father, I offer you the Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of Your dearly beloved Son, our Lord Jesus Christ, in atonement for our sins, and those of the whole world.
For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world (repeat 3 times)
Catholic Sacraments for Serious Illness and the End of Life
Beyond our own personal prayers, the Catholic Church gives us powerful, formal rituals called sacraments. These rites are designed to bring grace, comfort, and real spiritual strength when someone is seriously ill.
The focus of our prayers can naturally change as an illness progresses-shifting from healing, to comfort, and finally to a peaceful transition.
Anointing of the Sick
A lot of people think this sacrament, which used to be called Extreme Unction, is only for the very moment of death. That's just not the case anymore.
The Anointing of the Sick is a sacrament of healing. It’s meant for any Catholic who is dealing with a serious illness, preparing for a major surgery, or simply facing the struggles of old age.
It isn't a sign that death is moments away. It's a prayer for strength, peace, and courage to face what lies ahead.
In this rite, a priest anoints the person’s forehead and hands with blessed oil. He prays for spiritual healing and, if it is God’s will, physical healing, too.
It’s a powerful way to unite the person's suffering with Christ's, offering them grace in a profound way.
Reconciliation and Viaticum
As a person moves closer to the end of their life, two other sacraments become vital. They are meant to prepare the soul for its final journey, making sure the person is at peace with God.
Prayer for Someone Who Is Dying in Isolation
One of the great challenges of the pandemic was the likelihood of being unable to be physically present with a loved one at the end of their life. Following our experience of the pandemic, we may still be faced with the very real possibility that we cannot be at their bedside.
It is still possible to pray for a loved one from a distance. A prayer said elsewhere can express love, entrust the dying person to God, and unite family and friends in faith even when physical presence is not possible.
We also offer a brief reflection which might provide support to those faced with the prospect of a loved one dying in isolation, away from human contact other than nursing staff or carers.
When you can’t be with someone you love at the end of their life, prayer can help you remain spiritually close to them.
Praying for the Dying Person’s Peace
Our Lord is by their side to guide and protect them. The promise of scripture is that God will lead us through the valley of the shadow of death.
As we read in Deuteronomy 31:8, “It is the Lord who goes before you; he will be with you and will never fail you or forsake you. So do not fear or be dismayed.”
We should rejoice for our loved ones who will soon be in the presence of Christ. As the apostle Paul tells us, though we naturally grieve at losing loved ones, we are not to “grieve like the rest, who have no hope” (1 Thessalonians 4:13).
Our parting is not the end of our relationship, only an interruption. We will not lose our loved one who is near death, because we know where they will be going.
They will experience the joy and love of Christ’s presence in a place so wonderful that Christ called it Paradise. And one day, we’re told, in a magnificent reunion, them and we “shall always be with the Lord. Therefore console one another with these words” (1 Thessalonians 4:17-18).
Closing Prayer for Healing and Hope
Closing Prayer
God of gentleness and love,
We entrust to your care all those in need of any form of healing, and ask you to guide and sustain all who offer them healing and hope.
We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
